It was the best of cons, it was the worst of cons. The highlights as of this morning included hanging out with many Skepchick Network contributors, hosting an epic Quiz-o-Tron panel with Lucky Yates, Paul and Storm, Bill Corbett, Drew Curtis, Scott Sigler, Phil Plait, Molly Lewis, Ken Plume, and Joseph Scrimshaw, cosplaying as Wolverine (with several friends also gender bending Avengers), meeting loads of Skepchick readers and commenters, and meeting up with other awesome longtime and new friends like Adam Savage, Len Peralta, Mike Phirman, and Phil Lamarr.

As we have for the past several years, Surly Amy and I staffed a Skepchick fan table, selling (as always) our t-shirts, buttons, and jewellery. We talked a lot with a very nice man in charge of overseeing fan tables in our area (unfortunately I don’t recall his name), who helped us find a good spot for our table.

On Saturday, he came around and said he’d had a complaint from someone that we were selling buttons that were against the rules for fan tables. He explained the relevant rule, which on DragonCon’s site reads:

In deference to our dealers and exhibitors, who purchase a table or sponsor the convention, no general merchandise sales are permitted at concourse tables. You can sell logo merchandise from your organization and other items made exclusively for and by your club, band or organization. Dragon*Con does not charge a percentage of these merchandise sales.

(We hadn’t read (edit for clarity: were not aware of the existence of) that rule because Skeptrack admin Derek Colanduno arranges all the skeptic tables and we have no contact with DragonCon.)

I explained to the man that I personally make every button with my printer and buttonmaker, so by that rule they should be fine. However, I pointed out that I was selling Bigfoot air fresheners (like last year), which I don’t make and are not exclusive to Skepchick. I just think they’re funny and relevant. But, I acknowledged that that could be against the rule and if so, I was happy to take it off the table. The man thanked me for being flexible and told me to leave everything as is for now and that he’d run it past his higher ups and let us know if Bigfoot had to go. We thanked him for being fair and understanding, and Amy gave him a Surly necklace he had been eyeing. We didn’t hear back from him by the end of the day.

This morning, we set up the table and were having our coffee when Derek Colanduno came over and pulled Amy aside as I was helping a customer. Amy came back and told me, “We’re being shut down.” Derek had told her that according to his boss, there had been another complaint that we were in violation of the fan table rules. She asked to speak with the boss, who Derek went to fetch.

A few minutes later we were approached by David Cody, who is apparently Senior Director and co-chair of the gaming division. (He didn’t identify himself but Derek gave me that name after our conversation.)

(EDIT: A few people have suggested this person was actually Robert Dennis. Because Colanduno hadn’t sounded sure when he gave me Cody’s name, I told him to get bak to me immediately if it was in fact someone else. When I heard nothing for six hours, I went ahead with the name he gave me.)

Cody pointed at Amy’s jewellery and said we could not sell anything on the table that did not carry the Skepchick logo. While we do have a few logo shirts and buttons and jewelry, most of our handmade stuff is related to science and skepticism but without garish branding.

We first tried to figure out why the rule changed from “logo merchandise from your organization and other items made exclusively for and by your organization” to “logo merchandise only,” but Cody did not acknowledge that the rule had ever allowed for non-logo merch. Then we wondered how we’d been able to sell everything in the past but not now, but Cody(/Dennis) simply insisted we were flouting the rules. When we kept asking questions, he told us, “If you don’t like it, I can call my boss, and believe me, you do not want that to happen.”

We were confused. Was his boss a vampire? Cthulhu? We asked him if he was threatening us and if so, could he explain what the actual threat entailed. He told us we had been warned twice already by convention staff that our merchandise was in violation of the rules. We said that did not happen and as I tried to tell him about our positive interactions with his staff, he talked over me and insisted we were lying about having been warned. I told him that it didn’t even matter because I was going to pack up the table no matter what, but at this point all I wanted was for him to stop treating us like garbage and attempting to intimidate us.

After I repeated several times that I was packing up and leaving, he finally left us alone. Amy immediately changed her flight to leave today. I packed up, got some lunch, and then went to the literature track where I spoke about women in Game of Thrones before a packed and engaged crowd that lined the walls of the room and filled all the floor space right up to the lectern.

Now I’m back in my hotel room wondering if I should go to my final panel at 7pm in the Skeptrack room. On the one hand, I do these talks and panels for the DragonCon audience, who are consistently wonderful and enthusiastic. But on the other hand, I’m exhausted and frustrated from the stress of dealing with all this.

I’m an “attending professional” at DragonCon, meaning that I get a free pass to perform on panels but I’m expected to pay for my own airfare and hotel, costs that add up to be nearly $1,000. I expect to take a loss, but selling some Skepchick merchandise at least helps off-set that loss. This year, I have hardly even made a dent in my expenses.

I have essentially paid hundreds of dollars to perform for free for a for-profit organization, whose representative berated me.

That’s a big deal, especially for someone like me who lives on a blogger’s salary. It’s such a big deal that in a way it undoes all the good that was done by every other hard-working and accommodating DragonCon employee and volunteer I interacted with this weekend. It means that if things are the same next year, I won’t be able to attend DragonCon again despite the requests of the many people who apparently enjoy my contributions each year. And this is all thanks to one DragonCon employee on a power trip.

Apparently, it isn’t the first time Cody has behaved this way. Small comfort. (Same edit: crossed out in case this is actually Dennis.)

Regardless, I do want to clearly thank everyone at DragonCon who made this an amazing weekend up til now, and to all my friends on Twitter and Facebook who have my back. I truly hope that next year DragonCon officials decide my contributions are worth keeping. If not, I’ll see you all elsewhere.

Rebecca Watson

Rebecca Watson

Rebecca leads a team of skeptical female activists at Skepchick.org and appears on the weekly Skeptics' Guide to the Universe podcast. She travels around the world delivering entertaining talks on science, atheism, feminism, and skepticism. There is currently an asteroid orbiting the sun with her name on it. You can follow her every fascinating move on Twitter or on Google+.

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  1. Avatar of FledgelingSkeptic
    September 1, 2013 at 6:41 pm —

    If I were you, I’d talk to Cody’s boss and find out what gives. Get him to show you the complaints in writing and ask him about the supposed change in policy. Don’t just walk away.

  2. Avatar of erulora
    September 1, 2013 at 6:58 pm —

    “If you don’t like it, I can call my boss, and believe me, you do not want that to happen.”

    Why? You’re already being booted from the place, so what’s the boss gonna do that’s any worse?

  3. Avatar of Adam G.
    September 1, 2013 at 8:27 pm —

    That sucks. Sorry you had to deal with all this bull shit but at least your costume looks bad ass. Makes me want to crossplay as X23.

  4. Avatar of gregladen
    September 1, 2013 at 8:46 pm —

    Is there any evidence or reasonable suspicion that the original complaints were from the usual suspects?

    I’ve never been to Dragon Con (or any con but CONvergence) so I can’t directly relate but I can imagine the frustration of being treated like criminals. First, there is estopple, as you point out. Then there is the question of all other venders never violating the rule, which is unlikely. Then there is that the rule is misapplied. Then there is the problem that the rule was changed just for you.

    If I was regularly attending DragonCon as a pro, I would stop because of this. Sorry I can’t offer that support meaningfully. But I will look sternly at anyone I know who goes to Dragon Con ever again, if that helps.

  5. Avatar of ethicalcannibal
    September 1, 2013 at 9:31 pm —

    Well. That’s interesting. Mostly because my partner and I were going to go to DragonCon next year, after I graduate, BECAUSE OF skepchick involvement. Otherwise it’s kind of a generic con for us. It’s far away and expensive, but we’ve seen skepchick’s at GeekGirlCon, and thought if you all went, it was a good con to go to. If you lot, are not there, then I’ll save my pennies, and go to something more local.

    It’s just that I don’t trust a lot of conventions to do things right these days, and we’ve been kind of using Skepchick involvement as a rule of thumb for the kind of places we want to attend.

  6. Avatar of Skip Huffman
    September 1, 2013 at 10:01 pm —

    Sorry to hear that. You were incredibly professional at the 7:00 panel, no indication that there had been any adversity. Enjoyed the discussion very much.

  7. Avatar of anthrosciguy _
    September 1, 2013 at 10:10 pm —

    “If you don’t like it, I can call my boss, and believe me, you do not want that to happen.”

    ???Really? Why not? You’re being told you can’t sell your stuff. What’s the boss gonna do beyond confirming that, take you down to the waterfront and rough you up?

    If someone says you do NOT want that to happen, I’m inclined to think I do SO. Partly cause I’d like to know how far up the misconstruing of their own rules goes, and partly because I figure the guy saying you do NOT want that to happen is engaging in projection.

  8. Avatar of mrmisconception
    September 2, 2013 at 12:56 am —

    Gee, poorly outlined a unevenly applied rules sounds like a great way to do business. /sarcasm

    Why can’t con organizers at least act like people when confronting problems?

    • Avatar of skeith
      September 3, 2013 at 7:13 am —

      It actually =is= a great way to do business, if you want to be able to selectively reject certain people or classes of people. If you’re not allowed to discriminate openly, by having a rule that says “no lady skeptics are allowed to have tables” you instead have a rule that is overbroad and in some way ambiguous and apply it only to lady skeptics. I doubt that DragonCon is in any danger of going out of business, so enforcing prejudices has negligible costs for them.

    • Avatar of skeith
      September 3, 2013 at 7:15 am —

      (or, as occurred to me just as I hit Post, the desired rule might be “Rebecca Watson is not allowed to have a table.”)

  9. Avatar of donboc
    September 2, 2013 at 2:16 am —

    So sorry you had this experience. FWIW, FledgelingSkeptic sounds right to me. There are some administration names here: http://www.dragoncon.org/?q=be_a_volunteer
    Pat Henry might be worth talking to or writing to?

    Good luck!

  10. Avatar of Giliell
    September 2, 2013 at 4:39 am —

    I know more than one Con that ruined itself by treating volunteers like shit…

  11. Avatar of brive1987
    September 2, 2013 at 9:02 am —

    Hypothetically speaking, just when would you feel you had crossed a line and should buy a merchant table like all the other suckers selling unbranded kit?

    Or do you just assume your speaker presence makes this irrelevant? If so you may like to get that contra deal in writing.

    • Avatar of mrmisconception
      September 2, 2013 at 11:27 am —

      The problem wasn’t that they thought they were special and shouldn’t have the follow the rules, the problem was that they had done it that way before, that they were told they were okay after the first complaint, that others had done, and were still doing, what they had done, and that the rules seemed to have been arbitrarily changed and just for them.

      Did you bother reading the post or did you just assume that you knew what was going on by the first paragraph?
      If you did read, I would suggest reading for comprehension next time.

      • Avatar of Pugg Fuggly
        September 2, 2013 at 11:56 am —

        Also the disrespect and the implication (unless I’m misreading something) that whomever brought this up with management had some sort of antifeminist agenda. Clearly Rebecca is not yet saying this is the case, but you know how these things go, sigh.

      • Avatar of Christopher Becker
        September 2, 2013 at 12:42 pm —

        “The problem wasn’t that they thought they were special and shouldn’t have the follow the rules,”

        No, the problem was that they apparently thought they didn’t need to know the rules. That’s Derek Colundano’s job, apparently.

        If you’re on the floor selling, it’s your responsibility to know the rules. “That’s someone else’s job” and “We didn’t know” are not valid excuses.

        • Avatar of Melanie
          September 2, 2013 at 12:58 pm —

          You mean the rules they weren’t breaking with anything but the Bigfoot air freshener, which Rebecca offered to remove from the table? Everything else was branded or “made exclusively for and by” Skepchicks.

          • Avatar of Christopher Becker
            September 2, 2013 at 1:16 pm

            “You mean the rules they weren’t breaking with anything but the Bigfoot air freshener,”

            Yes, I mean the rules they weren’t breaking except for the ones they were. Nice defense. Besides, Watson herself tweeted that she also wasn’t allowed to sell her Keep the Thor in Thursday t-shirts because they weren’t branded with the skepchick logo. There were clearly a number of violations that she wasn’t aware of, and ignorance of the rules is not an excuse to break them.

          • Avatar of sadunlap
            September 2, 2013 at 1:36 pm

            I suspect it may be helpful to point out that the rules were astonishingly badly written. The idea behind the fan tables vs. the ones which sponsors have or ones which cost (as concessions) is that the merchandise at the free tables should not compete with that sold by people who have to pay to have a retail space. From the perspective of someone at a paid space selling, say, jewelry, someone at a free space selling jewelry, even if very different and hand-made, looks like unfair competition. It’s not the Skepchicks’ fault that the rules were very badly written.

            Had it been me, I would have said something like, “I realize that you have followed the DragonCon rules with your jewelry but here’s the thing: we’re receiving complaints that this constitutes unfair competition from one of our sponsors who has paid for retail space here. We screwed up when we formulate the part of the rules that let’s people in free retail space sell something made by themselves. No accusation, it’s our screw-up. It would be an enormous help if you could pack up the jewelry and just sell what has your logo and we’ll fix the fan table rules for the next Con.”

            As for a re-write on the rules, something to the effect that “fan tables must sell logo merchandise or that merchandise which relates very specifically and clearly to your organization, it’s goals or accomplishments. But notwithstanding these guidelines, in the even that a sponsor or a retailer who has paid for retail space complains of unfair competition, we reserve the right to require a fan table to stop selling any particular merchandise which we find resembles too closely general merchandise or which clearly draws sales away from those paying for retail space at the convention.”

            The Cons need fans and sponsors. Some sort of accommodation between the two is in order. Better written rules would help to do that.

          • Avatar of absinthia
            September 2, 2013 at 1:38 pm

            This is a reply to Christopher Becker, which ran out of reply buttons.

            You said, “If you’re on the floor selling, it’s your responsibility to know the rules”

            the rules on the DragonCon site, which Rebecca quoted:
            “You can sell logo merchandise from your organization and other items made exclusively for and by your club, band or organization.”

            other items made exclusively for and by your club. This is all in the original post.

            Keep on trying for that reading comprehension.

          • Avatar of sadunlap
            September 2, 2013 at 1:43 pm

            One more comment about the rules themselves. They are as unfair and objectionable to a paid concessionaire or sponsor selling general merchandise as they are to the people at the fan tables. Had I been a sponsor selling merchandise or had paid for retail space I would have been livid. But not with the Skepchicks.

          • Avatar of Handbasketexpress
            September 2, 2013 at 2:33 pm

            Shhh, you’re confusing him with facts. *near fatal eyeroll*

        • Avatar of marilove
          September 2, 2013 at 2:46 pm —

          Seriously? The rules are really terribly written and not easy to understand, but even if they had broken ONE FREAKIN’ RULE because of ONE FREAKIN’ TYPE OF MERCHANDISE, it doesn’t mean they needed to be removed from the entire convention.

          Why can’t people just be fucking human beings to one another and stop acting like spoiled, power tripping high school principals?! How difficult would it have been to say, “Hey, yeah if you could stop selling the Bigfoot toy, that would be great, and we promise to clarify the rules for next year.”

          DONE! No need to start a ruckus. Just ask Rebecca and her crew nicely to remove the one toy, and then everyone could have had a wonderful rest of the weekend.

          But no.

          Of course that’s not what they did. Why would they do something that doesn’t cause a lot of drama, right? I mean, Rebecca and crew must be ONE HUNDRED PERCENT PERFECT! At all times! Or ELSE!

      • Avatar of brive1987
        September 2, 2013 at 5:48 pm —

        Lets cut to the chase. They were selling general merchandise from a fan table and got called.

        They were in clear violation of the T&Cs. Surly’s stuff is neither branded nor made exclusively by and for the Skepchick community.

        The fact the Con had let this slip in the past does not change any of this. A cop that doesn’t pull you over 3 times in a row for a busted headlight can do so on the 4th. It’s up to you to abide with objective rules, full,stop. The rest of this “harassment” is real world tone trolling from people who can’t or won’t take direction from a Cons legitimate authority.

      • Avatar of brive1987
        September 2, 2013 at 5:50 pm —

        Lets cut to the chase. They were selling general merchandise from a fan table and got called.

        They were in clear violation of the T&Cs. Surly’s stuff is neither branded nor made exclusively by and for the Skepchick community.

        The fact the Con had let this slip in the past does not change any of this. A cop that doesn’t pull you over 3 times in a row for a busted headlight can do so on the 4th. It’s up to you to abide with objective rules, full stop.

        The rest of this “harassment” is real world tone trolling from people who can’t or won’t take direction from a Cons legitimate authority.

        • Avatar of marilove
          September 3, 2013 at 1:46 pm —

          They aren’t cops, you know.
          Oh, but they sure do think they are sometimes, don’t they? Power trippin asshats.

  12. Avatar of koberulz
    September 2, 2013 at 10:24 am —

    Unrelatedly: I keep getting a ‘no verification code generated’ error when attempting to use the ‘Contact Us’ page.

  13. Avatar of Christopher Becker
    September 2, 2013 at 1:46 pm —

    @sadunlap (for some reason I can’t reply to your post):

    “It’s not the Skepchicks’ fault that the rules were very badly written.”

    I agree. And I agree that everyone benefits from having clearly defined rules. But the fact that they were poorly written doesn’t change the fact that as a vendor, it was her responsibility to know the rules and abide by them. There was nothing stopping her from contacting someone before the con and saying “Hey, you know, these rules are worded kind of poorly, so I want to go over them with someone at DragonCon in order to be certain that I understand them and am not breaking them.” Instead, she decided that knowing the rules was someone else’s job (Derek’s).

    There’s plenty of blame to go around on both sides of this. What’s troublesome is skepchick’s refusal (or inability to see) that at least some of it lies with her.

    • Avatar of marilove
      September 2, 2013 at 2:51 pm —

      So they can be poorly written but she should be psychic and know exactly what the rules should be, even though they are vague and hard to understand because it appears whomever wrote them sucks at writing clearly? Really?

      Why do these douche bags act like the asshole principal from my high school, power tripping over shit that does not even fuckin’ matter? And why are you putting all the focus on someone who clearly didn’t really do much wrong, rather than the assholes who kicked them out for almost no reason whatsoever?

      It’s like they were watching for Skepchicks to make one tiny little mistake, and instead of discussing it like adults and saying, hey, can we fix this? They just go straight to kicking them out.

      Which was not cool. Not cool at all.

      And, no, she didn’t think that the rules were someone else’s — the rules, WHICH ARE NOT REBECCA OR SKEPCHICK’S RESPONSIBILITY TO WRITE OR TO MAKE CLEAR, WERE NOT CLEAR ENOUGH AND THEREFORE EASY TO “BREAK”.

      People really need to get over themselves. This wasn’t a big deal. But it was made into a big deal because of a clear agenda that some dude named Derek has. Really pathetic.

  14. Avatar of Christopher Becker
    September 2, 2013 at 1:48 pm —

    @absinthia:

    “You can sell logo merchandise from your organization and other items made exclusively for and by your club, band or organization.”

    Clearly, several items of theirs did not meet this criteria.

    • Avatar of mrmisconception
      September 2, 2013 at 1:58 pm —

      One item did not meet the criteria and they removed it, at which point the representative seemed to be fine with the arraignment. I think it is fair to say that “made exclusively for an by your club…” can be interpreted to mean things that only you sell that was made for you, like the shirts and Surlys that were being sold. I don’t think too many people would need clarification on that rule, except their representative decided (much like you seem to have) that they were wantonly breaking the rules.
      If you read the other instance of Cody acting unreasonable you would see that he is very happy for people to be there to service the con but is not willing to make it worth their time. Poorly written rules and refusal to be reasonable and treating people like trash may be within their rights, but it is a piss-poor way to encourage further volunteers.

      • Avatar of Christopher Becker
        September 2, 2013 at 2:06 pm —

        “One item did not meet the criteria and they removed it,”

        At least two. The bigfoots, and the Keep the Thor in Thursday t-shirts (per Watson’s tweet that they couldn’t be sold without branding).

        ” I think it is fair to say that “made exclusively for an by your club…” can be interpreted to mean things that only you sell that was made for you, like the shirts and Surlys that were being sold.”

        Not if the items they were selling were uncomfortably similar to someone else’s, which may or may not have been the case with the jewelry, and is almost certainly the case with the Keep the Thor in Thursday t-shirt (Skepchick is not the only organization to sell those).

        “except their representative decided (much like you seem to have) that they were wantonly breaking the rules.”

        They *were* wantonly breaking the rules. Your (and Skepchick’s) entire defense seems to be “Well, we weren’t breaking them THAT badly.”

        “If you read the other instance of Cody acting unreasonable”

        One instance three years ago. Definitely enough to establish a complete psychological profile of someone over the internet.

        • Avatar of mrmisconception
          September 2, 2013 at 2:19 pm —

          Is this dude your buddy or are you a seller? Are you the one who complained, because your defense seems to be that they were breaking the rules, they were breaking the rules, they were breaking the rules.
          If everyone is speeding and only red cars are being pulled over it would point to a unfair deployment of those rules, no one is denying that they broke the rules, only that they were singled out for enforcement. Geez.

          • Avatar of Christopher Becker
            September 2, 2013 at 2:23 pm

            “Is this dude your buddy or are you a seller? Are you the one who complained”

            Nope. No idea who this is, and I’ve never been to a con. Have fun on the conspiracy bandwagon, though. You probably can’t trust anything I say, so maybe I really am a seller and this dude is my dad.

            “because your defense seems to be that they were breaking the rules, they were breaking the rules, they were breaking the rules.”

            That’s my argument because, and bear with me here, because I know it’s a little complex, but… they WERE breaking the rules.

            “If everyone is speeding and only red cars are being pulled over it would point to a unfair deployment of those rules, no one is denying that they broke the rules, only that they were singled out for enforcement.”

            You have evidence that everyone else was breaking the rules? Great! Let’s see it.

          • Avatar of mrmisconception
            September 2, 2013 at 3:19 pm

            Once again, they are not saying they didn’t break the rules just that Cody shouldn’t have been such a power-tripping douche about it. This guy sounds like the principal from The Breakfast Club, technically in the right but being a shithead about it.

            As for conspiracy, right that’s what I said. I’m just wondering why you care so, so much?

          • Avatar of victoriadashtwenty
            September 2, 2013 at 7:44 pm

            I imagine you wearing glasses with an internet browser open to some made up search engine like “Finder-Spyder” reflected in them, doing a search for Christopher Becker’s posts prior to September 1st, 2013 and furrowing your brow.

            Two days later, Marilove is reading the newspaper obituary side out when a postal worker delivers a mysterious manila envelope.

        • Avatar of Melanie
          September 2, 2013 at 2:26 pm —

          is almost certainly the case with the Keep the Thor in Thursday t-shirt (Skepchick is not the only organization to sell those).

          No, the design, by Chloe Ashton, is exclusive to Skepchick. It was designed for Skepchick. No one else can sell that design. That they couldn’t be sold without branding is another example of Cody’s ignorance of the DragonCon rules.

          They *were* wantonly breaking the rules.

          Which is it? They were wantonly breaking them or they didn’t know them (and should have). Can’t be both. When you have to come up with different contradictory arguments to support your conclusion, you’re doing the whole thing backwards (and not arguing in good faith).

          • Avatar of Christopher Becker
            September 2, 2013 at 2:38 pm

            “Which is it? They were wantonly breaking them or they didn’t know them (and should have). Can’t be both.”

            Fair enough. They should have known them, and didn’t. It is their responsibility to know the rules and abide by them. They didn’t. Con can do anything they want, at that point.

            Do I think the Con staff overreacted? Yes. That doesn’t let Skepchick off the hook for her part in this, though.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 2, 2013 at 2:52 pm

            And the rules should be clear and concise. Period.

      • Avatar of mrmisconception
        September 2, 2013 at 2:07 pm —

        That should be arrangement not arraignment, damned auto-correct.

  15. Avatar of Melanie
    September 2, 2013 at 2:03 pm —

    What’s troublesome is skepchick’s refusal (or inability to see) that at least some of it lies with her.

    Which is the opposite of what happened. Rebecca pointed out the one item that did not meet the rules and offered to remove it from the table. That is directly seeing the responsibility she had in breaking the rule and offering to remedy the problem. Everything else, including the Thor shirts, were in keeping with the rules. David Cody was more ignorant of the rules than Rebecca was, and he’s a director and co-chair.

    • Avatar of Christopher Becker
      September 2, 2013 at 2:07 pm —

      “Which is the opposite of what happened.”

      Really? Please point me to the part of the post where she says something that amounts to “It was my responsibility to know the rules, and I admit fault for not knowing them.”

      • Avatar of bcmystery
        September 2, 2013 at 2:26 pm —

        There’s always a guy like you who shows up in the comments to dissemble, distort, and misrepresent reality in the same tiresome ways. Christ, but you people need another fucking hobby.

  16. Avatar of Melanie
    September 2, 2013 at 2:18 pm —

    Please point me to the part of the post where she says something that amounts to “It was my responsibility to know the rules, and I admit fault for not knowing them.”

    Oh, I see. She needs to say a certain script. You should put some rules out for people to follow because most people really aren’t aware of the script in your head that they need to follow. Also, mind-reading apparatus and a redrawn map of the universe that revolves around how you think people should acknowledge their mistakes only in a very particular way.

    She acknowledged fault for breaking the rule by pointing out that she was breaking it and offering to take the item off the table. That is admitting fault and it is taking responsibility for remedying her mistake.

    • Avatar of Christopher Becker
      September 2, 2013 at 2:25 pm —

      “Oh, I see. She needs to say a certain script.”

      Not at all. But there is a difference between stopping a behavior that someone tells you to stop and actually admitting responsibility. If a teacher tells Billy to stop hitting Stewart, and Billy says “Ok, I’ll stop”, that is not the same as admitting responsibility for knowing and breaking the rules. Skepchick actively pawns off that responsibility on Derek here (We didn’t know the rules because that’s his job).

      • Avatar of Melanie
        September 2, 2013 at 2:27 pm —

        No one told her to stop selling the Bigfoot air freshener. She pointed it out herself.

        • Avatar of Christopher Becker
          September 2, 2013 at 2:34 pm —

          Pointed it out herself, after an event official came around and told her there had been complaints about the merchandise she was selling. A responsible vendor would have learned the rules before ever setting foot on the floor, and never been selling anything that violated them in the first place. Any indication from Skepchick that “This is what I should have done, and will do in the future”, would suffice. Not “Well, that was Derek’s job.”

          Besides, as has already been established from Watson herself, the Bigfoots were not the only problem item.

          • Avatar of Melanie
            September 2, 2013 at 2:48 pm

            Complaints about the buttons, which weren’t in violation of the rules. She then pointed on the one item that was. The Bigfoots were the only problem item according to the actual rules. She tweeted about the Thor shirt being a problem item with Cody, but the shirts weren’t actually a problem item according to the rules. I presume you are also taking this up with DragonCon because Cody’s ignorance of the rules is no excuse? If that’s really the problem here, in your eyes, you are doing that, right?

      • Avatar of Handbasketexpress
        September 2, 2013 at 2:36 pm —

        Christopher, is the problem that you can’t read or that you just don’t care what the words actually say?

        • Avatar of Christopher Becker
          September 2, 2013 at 2:40 pm —

          I appear to be the only one who actually cares what words say. Specifically the words “We hadn’t read that rule because Skeptrack admin Derek Colundano arranges all the skeptic tables”, and the rules of the con that they broke.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 2, 2013 at 2:55 pm

            You keep trying to insist that she broke tons of rules and wasn’t taking responsibility for the ONE rule she accidentally broke. RULES RULES RULES!

            You know, it’s not like she murdered someone. Why can’t Derek have just been flexible but firm? Why the need to kick them out? The rules certainly don’t say, “If you make one little mistake and break one little rule, YOU’RE OUT!!! No questions asked!” No, of course not, because we’re adults and we can decide if perhaps someone made an honest mistake (like humans do), advise them of the rules, and then move the hell on.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 2, 2013 at 2:56 pm

            Also: I’m sure you’re just wonderfully perfect, amirmight? You never speed? EVER?! You better not. THEMS ARE THE RULES!!!!

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 2, 2013 at 2:57 pm

            And if you’ve ever ran a red light, even by accident: GO TURN YOURSELF IN NOW, man! Because damn, dude. You broke the rules and deserved to be severely punished!

          • Avatar of Handbasketexpress
            September 2, 2013 at 2:57 pm

            They then go on to explain why everything at the table but the air fresheners that they offered to remove were well within the rules. No sir, you don’t care at all about the facts.

      • Avatar of marilove
        September 2, 2013 at 2:54 pm —

        She didn’t know the rules because they were written poorly.

        • Avatar of Christopher Becker
          September 2, 2013 at 2:59 pm —

          “You keep trying to insist that she broke tons of rules and wasn’t taking responsibility for the ONE rule she accidentally broke. RULES RULES RULES!”

          I never said tons of rules. And yes, she broke a rule, and with this blog post, is attempting to pass herself off as a victim, rather than as a person who needs to own up to her mistake.

          “You know, it’s not like she murdered someone.”

          Is that the standard for ignoring rules now?

          “Also: I’m sure you’re just wonderfully perfect, amirmight? You never speed? EVER?! You better not. THEMS ARE THE RULES!!!!”

          I don’t speed, at all, ever. That may have something to do with the fact that I don’t drive, but hey, you didn’t know that. But if I did speed, and I got caught, I would admit fault. Because it would be my fault.

          “She didn’t know the rules because they were written poorly.”

          No, she didn’t know the rules because that’s Derek’s job. She said so herself, in this very post. See?

          “We hadn’t read that rule because Skeptrack admin Derek Colundano arranges all the skeptic tables “

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 2, 2013 at 3:02 pm

            RULES!

            RULES RULES RULES RULES!

            I don’t want to talk to you. I’m sure you’ve broken a rule somewhere, at some time, and that you should have known because it’s not someone else’s job to know the rules which you inevitably break as humans do.

            You are no longer relevant. Rule breaker! You evil fuckin’ rule breaker.

          • Avatar of quietmarc
            September 4, 2013 at 12:50 pm

            You know that there are no rules against talking about a negative experience, right? Like, just as the Con has the right to enforce its own rules (however unevenly), Rebecca is ALSO allowed to describe her interpretation of events so that others can make a decision about what happened.

            And you know that this post isn’t about Skepchick being angry that there were rules they were supposed to follow, right? They are angry for the way that the rules were enforced. If I’m caught shoplifting, I can be stopped and scolded, or I can be shot and killed, or several other options in between. Some options available to enforce rules are more appropriate than others.

            Considering how Surly Amy and Rebecca have been treated at cons and in their personal lives since it was revealed that they are women who have opinions, I can easily understand why an experience like this one would make them think twice about returning and want to express their perceptions of events.

            They broke the rules, your argument is that they broke the rules (and shouldn’t be upset about anything that happened afterwards, because once you break a rule, whether you know it or not, you are leaving yourself open to all and any consequences, right?). No one argues that they broke the rules (with lots of qualifiers here because there’s ambiguity), so that means you’re done here, right?

            If your point is more than “They brought this upon themselves and I wish they would shut up,” then you are doing a poor job of representing that.

  17. Avatar of Christopher Becker
    September 2, 2013 at 2:56 pm —

    @Melanie (man, that disappearing Reply button is really annoying)

    “In deference to our dealers and exhibitors, who purchase a table or sponsor the convention, no general merchandise sales are permitted at concourse tables.”

    Guess who is allowed to make the call what is and isn’t considered general merchandise? Hint: it’s not Skepchick.

    “If that’s really the problem here, in your eyes, you are doing that, right?”

    The problem here is Skepchick pawning her responsibility off on Derek, and then presenting herself as a victim to the world with this post. As soon as Cody writes a blog where he says “You guys, the Skepchick girls were super mean to me and it was totally unfair!”, I will gladly take him to task for his role in this.

    • Avatar of marilove
      September 2, 2013 at 2:57 pm —

      No she wasn’t and no she didn’t. And, Skepchick girls? THEY ARE GROWN ASS WOMAN.

      As soon as Cody writes a blog where he says “You guys, the Skepchick girls were super mean to me and it was totally unfair!”, I will gladly take him to task for his role in this.

      And where, exactly, did anyone even imply this bullshit you’ve made up in your head?

      • Avatar of Christopher Becker
        September 2, 2013 at 3:01 pm —

        “And, Skepchick girls? THEY ARE GROWN ASS WOMAN.”

        Which is what I would tell Cody, if he said that. Did you miss the quotes? Or the “As soon as Cody writes a blog where he says” bit?

        “And where, exactly, did anyone even imply this bullshit you’ve made up in your head?”

        You’ll need to be more specific.

        • Avatar of marilove
          September 2, 2013 at 3:03 pm —

          Oh stop it. Stop patronizing these grown women while trying to pretend you’re just pretending Cody maybe would have said it. Your agenda is getting clearer and clearer the more you talk;.

          • Avatar of Christopher Becker
            September 2, 2013 at 3:06 pm

            Ah yes, “the agenda”. You’ve caught me. Because when I come here to point out that Skepchick pawned off her on responsibility onto Derek, which has already been established, what I’m *actually* doing is the work of the Patriarchy. Good grief.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 3, 2013 at 1:47 pm

            They are women. Not girls. I know the slip of the fingers that reveal your agenda wasn’t intentional, but it wasn’t very surprising.

        • Avatar of marilove
          September 2, 2013 at 3:04 pm —

          Also, I block-qouted the bullshit you made up. You’re not so great at reading comprehension, are ya? Shocker.

          • Avatar of Christopher Becker
            September 2, 2013 at 3:06 pm

            The block quote was the equivalent of what Skepchick is doing here, but from Cody’s perspective. Not that hard to figure out. “Guys, DragonCon was super mean to me!”, while ignoring all responsibility for why that happened.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 3, 2013 at 1:47 pm

            You really can’t read very well, can ya?

      • Avatar of Christopher Becker
        September 2, 2013 at 3:08 pm —

        “I don’t want to talk to you. I’m sure you’ve broken a rule somewhere, at some time, and that you should have known because it’s not someone else’s job to know the rules which you inevitably break as humans do.”

        Yes, I have. And it was always my responsibility to know the rules, and my failing when I did not. The proper response is not to say “Well, somebody else was supposed to know the rules.” It’s to say “You are right, I should have known that and I did not. That was my fault. I apologize.”

    • Avatar of Melanie
      September 2, 2013 at 3:10 pm —

      “In deference to our dealers and exhibitors, who purchase a table or sponsor the convention, no general merchandise sales are permitted at concourse tables.”

      Guess who is allowed to make the call what is and isn’t considered general merchandise? Hint: it’s not Skepchick.

      You’re right. It’s not. It’s Dragon Con. And they do so in the very next sentence:

      You can sell logo merchandise from your organization and other items made exclusively for and by your club, band or organization.

      The real problem here, in a post about unfair treatment and intimidation by David Cody, is the aside, in parentheses, explaining why she didn’t know the rules? Really? That’s not pawning off her responsibility, because she took responsibility for breaking the rules, as I’ve noted. It was an explanation for why she didn’t know them, not blaming Derek. Should she have read them? Yes. She made a mistake. She pointed out the item that broke the rules once she knew them and offered to remedy.

      Is that really the problem you see here? That she made the mistake of not reading the rules and explained why? Not the intimidation, not the unfair treatment, not the contradictions among staff, not David Cody kicking them out based on (charitably) his own misunderstanding of the rules? Your priorities are disturbing.

      • Avatar of Christopher Becker
        September 2, 2013 at 3:21 pm —

        ” That’s not pawning off her responsibility, because she took responsibility for breaking the rules, as I’ve noted.”

        No, you’ve noted her attempt to get out of trouble. You have not noted any understanding on her part that she was responsible. Again, any indication from her that “I should have known this and I did not” would have kept me away from this article. Any indication at all. But the only mention of why she didn’t know the rules is “That’s Derek’s job”.

        “Should she have read them? Yes. She made a mistake.”

        Nowhere in her article does she admit this. That’s the issue. That’s the *only* issue I have with it. Had there been *any* indication that she understood that part of the fault lays with her, I would not be here right now.

        “Not the intimidation, not the unfair treatment, not the contradictions among staff, not David Cody kicking them out based on (charitably) his own misunderstanding of the rules?”

        I’ve already stated that the Con staff bear a significant portion of the blame. Their reaction was over the top, especially given the miscommunication among the staff and the poorly written rules. This escalated far beyond where it should have because of either their ineptitude or their maliciousness.

        None of that lets Skepchick off the hook for *her* portion of the fault. The portion that she gives no indication of understanding, or owning up to, in this post.

        • Avatar of Melanie
          September 2, 2013 at 4:02 pm —

          No, you’ve noted her attempt to get out of trouble.

          You are reading into this through your own bias. An attempt to get out of trouble in this situation would have involved taking the Bigfoots off the table without saying anything, after the guy left, not pointing them out despite no one complaining about them.

          You are also reading into her aside about Derek as an excuse, not as what it is on the face of it–simply an explanation..

          You are making ignorance of the rules into the major point here, yet Cody’s ignorance of the rules and how he acted on that ignorance is far more egregious. But you aren’t so bothered by this problem that you’re willing to contact Cody or Dragon Con about it unless Cody blogs about it. So ignorance of the rules is a problem only if someone blogs about it. Not much of a standard for what you consider problematic.

        • Avatar of delphi_ote
          September 2, 2013 at 6:12 pm —

          Your axe is officially ground down to the handle, so you can probably go back to doing whatever it is you do when you’re not obsessively posting on someone else’s blog now. I know I won’t miss your creepy monomania or your junior Sturmabteilung impression.

          • Avatar of brive1987
            September 2, 2013 at 6:54 pm

            No. Having read all of above, I’d still like to see why Watson shouldn’t accept even partial responsibility for not knowing the rules.

            It is clear though that this is a red herring. Watson accepts she broke the rules with certain items.

            The real crux is “on what bais would an outsider recognise Surly’s art as being “by and for” the Skepchick club. (Other than the profits being “by and for” …. In this instance).

            Wasn’t the whole Vacula doxxing issue spun off the reality that Surly’s business was registered as an entirely separate entity?

            And lets be clear, it was because they had to packup the high margin kit that they flounced from the Fan area. There was no ‘booting’.

          • Avatar of delphi_ote
            September 3, 2013 at 2:01 am

            Great. brive1987 is another MRA creeper. Do you really have nothing better to do with your time? The shit on Coast to Coast is less paranoid than your nonsense.

          • Avatar of brive1987
            September 3, 2013 at 4:51 am

            “MRA creeper” in the same sense you *must* be a radfem trans hating ideologue? You couldn’t Poe this if you tried.

          • Avatar of delphi_ote
            September 4, 2013 at 5:02 pm

            “You couldn’t Poe this if you tried.”

            If he knew in advance that you would one day use his invention to communicate a sentence that mind numbing, I wonder if Tim Berners-Lee would’ve decided to become a dentist instead.

  18. Avatar of skmc
    September 2, 2013 at 3:22 pm —

    Christopher Becker, you keep using constructions like “Skepchick is pawning her responsibility off” and “skepchick’s refusal (or inability to see) that at least some of it lies with her” and “that is what Skepchick is doing here”, as though Skepchick were an individual’s name. You appear to be very confused on the basics.

    • Avatar of Christopher Becker
      September 2, 2013 at 3:24 pm —

      Force of habit, I refer to Watson as Skepchick. I’ll try to be more clear in the future.

      • Avatar of punchdrunk
        September 2, 2013 at 4:11 pm —

        You must talk about her a lot.
        I guess you’re a big fan.

        • Avatar of Christopher Becker
          September 2, 2013 at 7:52 pm —

          Only when someone brings her up in the forums I crawl. I do the same with the Friendly Atheist, despite the fact that Hemant Mehta is not the only one to blog under that banner. To me, he’s the Friendly Atheist. But feel free to read into that whatever insane conspiratorial things you wish.

          • Avatar of punchdrunk
            September 2, 2013 at 8:00 pm

            So, you don’t have a problem with Rebecca Watson or Skepchick, you just enjoy scolding people generally?
            Have fun with that.

      • Avatar of Handbasketexpress
        September 2, 2013 at 6:04 pm —

        That’s not her name. Just as these are grown ass women, not little girls.
        Force of habit? You have a habit of talking about Rebecca and when you do it is your habit to misname her?
        Uh huh……
        The only habit I’m seeing is your habit of ignoring the facts and substituting them with what you want to see. I’ve heard of motivated reasoning, but you seem capable of motivated reading.

        • Avatar of Christopher Becker
          September 2, 2013 at 7:54 pm —

          “That’s not her name. Just as these are grown ass women, not little girls.”

          Yes, and Hemant Mehta’s name is not The Friendly Atheist, but I still refer to him as such.

          “Force of habit? You have a habit of talking about Rebecca and when you do it is your habit to misname her?”

          No, I have a habit of talking about whoever is a hot topic on the forums I crawl, and Watson is a common name there. I refer to her as Skepchick, I refer to Mehta as the Friendly Atheist, I refer to Myers as P-Zed, I refer to the guy who plays Mr. Deity whose real name escapes me as Mr. Deity… any others you’d like to know about?

          “The only habit I’m seeing is your habit of ignoring the facts and substituting them with what you want to see. ”

          The facts are Rebecca Watson was unaware of the con rules, and sold merch that violated them. Especially now that I know the Thorsday shirt is Skeptical Robot brand, NOT Skepchick branded, and the jewelry had a similar problem. They broke the rules, they got caught, and Rebecca has yet to own up to her end of the blame.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 3, 2013 at 1:50 pm

            Skepchick is a NETWORK OF BLOGS. Rebecca is NOT “Skepchick”. She is Rebecca.

            The Friendly Atheist IS the Friendly Atheist. There is a difference.

            Your ability to parse context is really fucking terrible. Something tells me you are not very good at noticing the details OR the larger picture. At all. Ever.

          • Avatar of quietmarc
            September 4, 2013 at 12:56 pm

            I’m concerned…despite your insistence that rules must be followed, you appear incapable of understanding or following the rules of etiquette and being a decent human being.

            Even though ignorance is no excuse, let me explain: in many cultures, it is considered rude to repeatedly misidentify a person in conversation. Some would say breaking this rule is worse than accidently selling an inappropriate product at a fan expo.

            When people react poorly to your disregard for their proper names and identities, I’m sure you accept their scorn with grace, since you deserve it.

      • Avatar of delphi_ote
        September 2, 2013 at 6:15 pm —

        Douche chills? No. I just got douche hypothermia.

      • Avatar of marilove
        September 3, 2013 at 1:49 pm —

        Wow. You refer to a woman by the name of her blog?! Really????

        You’re awful.

  19. Avatar of mrmisconception
    September 2, 2013 at 6:29 pm —

    If you Google him he was on the “why didn’t she go to the police?” side of the recent debate.
    Very lawyerly and quite dismissive of the way rape is handled.
    Doesn’t prove anything but provides perspective.

    • Avatar of Christopher Becker
      September 2, 2013 at 7:58 pm —

      “If you Google him he was on the “why didn’t she go to the police?” side of the recent debate.”

      Reductionism for the win.

      Depends on which account you’re referring to, but in general, I’m on the “If there is no evidence to support the claim, there is no justification for acting on the claim” side. That holds for con staff and the police, and any other governing body you care to invoke. One would think that an organization of skeptics would realize the merit of not accepting something as true by default.

  20. Avatar of Jack99
    September 2, 2013 at 6:30 pm —

    To me this is just like dealing with United Airlines, where one representative tells you one thing and then another totally incompetent and unbelievably arrogant toad tells you completely the opposite. Neither they nor the customer can interpret the rules as written, because they were wriitten by a team of chimpanzees

    Great way to treat your customers. I hate to think how many manhours are wasted sorting out the clusterfuck, and all that eats into the bottom line.

    TL;DR never again, and tell all your friends and acquaintances.

  21. Avatar of Amy Roth
    September 2, 2013 at 8:58 pm —

    Uh, somebody up thread said some bullshit about Surly-Ramics being it’s own entity and that is why I had my home address posted. I’m guessing that person and others like them do not understand how business works in the USA. I am a sole proprietor, that means my business is just me. You can call yourself whatever you want and still do business. You get what is called a DBA. That stands for “doing business as.” A DBA does not make me a corporation or a separate entity nor does it excuse anyone from posting my home address with a photo of where I live on multiple sites meant to intimidate me.

    Also, Skepchick is a NETWORK of blogs. Not just this blog and not just Rebecca. For years and years I have used money made from my jewelry to fund all kinds of projects for Skepchick and Mad Art Lab. I have also used the money raised from selling my jewelry, that I make by hand, to send people to science and skeptic events. My art is as much a part of this blog network as any logo Tshirt and anyone who knows us, knows that. Fans, who the table was for, certainly know that. Derek and Swoopy and any other volunteers for Skeptrack certainly know that. I think what I am most annoyed with, is that no one in charge of the skeptic programming did anything at all to help us work things out with the angry, rude man who talked over us and told us to take everything off the table. If any rules were broken, it was with the Bigfoot air-fresheners which, like we said, we would have had no problem at all pulling but the first friendly volunteer, (I think his name was Mike) said to leave.

    There, glad I could clear that up for you.

    • Avatar of Christopher Becker
      September 2, 2013 at 9:16 pm —

      “I have used money made from my jewelry to fund all kinds of projects for Skepchick and Mad Art Lab. I have also used the money raised from selling my jewelry, that I make by hand, to send people to science and skeptic events. My art is as much a part of this blog network as any logo Tshirt and anyone who knows us, knows that.”

      Sounds like a clear violation of the “You can only sell goods made by/for your organization” rule. If the table was representative of the Skepchick organization, then the only merchandise allowed to be sold there was merchandise made by the Skepchick organization, for the Skepchick organization. Anything by/for Mad Art Lab, or by an individual artist (even if that artist belongs to Skepchick, the merchandise in question needs to be made by/for the organization), would not be kosher.

      We could go back and forth until we’re blue in the face about whether or not that’s a dumb rule (I suspect we wouldn’t need to, though, as I already think it’s dumb), but that is the rule regardless. If you were at the table selling, then it was your responsibility to know the rules and abide by them.

      • Avatar of Amy Roth
        September 2, 2013 at 9:24 pm —

        Mad art Lab is part of Skepchick. I am part of Skepchick. I get that you refuse to wrap your tiny brain around the idea that Skepchick is a network of blogs, since you so desperately want it to be just Rebecca so then you can be all super-duper obtuse and angry at her and call her a victim. But I promise you, Mad Art Lab, all the other blogs linked at the top of the page AND all the writers and contributors to the Skepchick Network are part of Skepchick too.

        • Avatar of brive1987
          September 3, 2013 at 4:43 am —

          Trademark is registered to you and the Mad Art website states:

          “She is the creator and maker of Surly-Ramics. She also writes for Skepchick.org”.

          I note the clear distinction drawn there. So in what legal sense is Surly-Ramics “owned” and indivisible to Skepchick?

          • Avatar of brive1987
            September 3, 2013 at 5:23 am

            Or to be clearer. The fact you self define various entities as being a NETWORK does not necessarily make that a “club” as understood by DragonCon. Clearly you are pushing the reasonable definition of what constitutes a fan club and attendant merchandise which promotes that club. SkepticalRobot is also clearly a commercial operation pulling stuff from everywhere to make a buck. I’m sure if you try hard you will see that this is not what DragonCon was catering for. Their house, their rules.

            And tell me just how much more aggressive was the management compared to, oh say the typical recent thread over at FtB (a site also promoted by SkepticalRobot I might add)?
            Or is tone trolling only a “thing” when used to silence dissent and naive newbies?

    • Avatar of brive1987
      September 3, 2013 at 9:12 am —

      Nobody said that doxxing was acceptable. I’m noting the difficulty DragonCon would have discerning that your merchant network (SkepticRobot, SurlyRamics etc) is actually legit “fan club” output. I can easily see how clear violations (Bigfoot etc), un logoed art and *possibly* some attitude could result in a bouncer like “move along” directive. And like any pub scene, when it comes to that, the best option is to comply with house rules.

  22. Avatar of Christopher Becker
    September 2, 2013 at 9:08 pm —

    @punchdrunk:

    “So, you don’t have a problem with Rebecca Watson or Skepchick, you just enjoy scolding people generally?”

    Enjoy has nothing to do with it. When I stumble upon someone saying something problematic, I call them on it. In this case, it was Watson playing up her victim status without taking responsibility for her own part in what happened, giving it only passing lipservice in the form of “That was Derek’s job.”

  23. Avatar of Melissa
    September 2, 2013 at 10:38 pm —

    Sorry I’ve been traveling & I’m very tired. But I feel I have some pretty relevant info I’d like to put out there. My boyfriend and I were at Dragoncon and went directly to Dragoncon management to find out what happened with the Skepchick table. We spoke with Sara McKorkendale, Information Services & Tables and Robert “Bobby” Dennis, Senior Director. We believe Bobby was the same person who had told Rebecca & Amy they were breaking the rules because he used the same wording with us regarding his partner/boss Chairman Pat Henry as the person who we “DO NOT WANT TO HAVE GET INVOLVED” So to be clear, it was not David Cody.
    Anyway Bobby told us specifically they broke the rules because their merch wasn’t logoed. He also claimed all merch profits must go to a nonprofit org.
    We politely pointed out the rules do not state that absolutely everything must be logoed and we quoted the rule. “You can sell logo merchandise from your organization and other items made exclusively for & by your club, band or organization”
    Right from the start Bobby was unnecessarily defensive, belligerent and rude to us. However, Sara did acknowledge the error on their part as far as the wording and they would be more clear on their wording next year.
    We then took a look around and noticed other tables in that area that were selling non-logoed items and books whose proceeds were not going to any non profit (unless you count the author’s pocket as a non profit). So the crux of the issue was the arbitrary interpretation of their policy and very unprofessional manner handling the situation. I don’t blame Amy or Rebecca at all for leaving after talking to this asshole. I would too.

    • Avatar of Will
      September 3, 2013 at 10:40 am —

      Interesting.

      I wish there were some pictures floating around of the fan booths that could demonstrate how arbitrarily this rule was applied.

      • Avatar of phlebas
        September 4, 2013 at 3:51 pm —

        @Will
        “I wish there were some pictures floating around of the fan booths that could demonstrate how arbitrarily this rule was applied.”
        I wish I had thought to take some. I spent an embarrassing amount of time (that is, more than a tenth of a second) sitting behind a Skeptic Society table taking people’s money for back issues of Skeptic magazine and a whole bunch of Michael Shermer’s books. The magazine was probably okay, but AFAIK those books weren’t created/printed/published/distributed by the Skeptic Society. The edition of “Why People Believe Weird Things,” for example, was printed by Holt Paperbacks. Michael Shermer may in large part BE the Skeptic Society, but that’s not the same thing.

  24. Avatar of Giliell
    September 3, 2013 at 4:37 am —

    And clearly, for the sake of transparency and fairness they could not have given the Skepchicks a clear written warning detailed with exact complaints like “remove items XYZ or face being kicked out”. That’s called “being professional”.

    • Avatar of brive1987
      September 3, 2013 at 5:55 am —

      Or you could adopt the FtB model of dealing with unwanted situations at ‘your party’: mob aggression and banning. That appears to be an acceptable model, no? In fact Maybe DragonCon could have roving monitors sending alerts to head office of any unlogoed jewellery. Or is that a standard that doesn’t apply here?

      • Avatar of Giliell
        September 3, 2013 at 6:53 am —

        Non sequitur. I notice you don’t have any decent argument why that wouldn’t have been a professional way to handle the situation indeed, so you just throw in some words.
        Tell me, in which way is a blog the same as aconvention?
        Did you have to put up a few hundred bucks to participate at Pharyngula which you lost when your ass was kicked? If no I thin we can just conclude that you’re simply lashing out because your fee-fees were hurt at a completely different place

        • Avatar of brive1987
          September 3, 2013 at 8:53 am —

          No. I find it hugely ironic to read demands for civility, written warnings and transparency from this community. Blog, convention, it’s all human interaction and your standards spin like a ballarina.

          From what I have read they were told to remove specific items including the general merchandise SurleyRamics. Loss of this cash cow was the deal beaker. The narrative is also one of unilateral harassment. I don’t find it plausible that RW was a pliant victim and there was no push back. But I am prepared to be corrected.

          Moreover I didn’t realise RW’s participation at DragonCon was predicated on it being a zero sum outlay. That would be a nice world to live in. I only saw her name on two skeptic panels (a quiz and a new media session). Just how much did she feel she was owed? I assume she extracted value from the rest of the 4 days.

          • Avatar of mrmisconception
            September 3, 2013 at 9:23 am

            From what I have read they were told to remove specific items including the general merchandise SurleyRamics.

            From what you’ve read, on Sara Mayhew’s blog, who “sent out a few texts and emails” because she “wanted to hear from people who were actually there” (implying that she disbelieved Rebecca and Amy) without including any of those texts or e-mails.
            You believe Sara’s version of the story (second hand) but insist that it is more accurate than Rebecca and Amy’s account (first hand). You are welcome to disbelieve Rebecca and Amy’s version of the story but please stop pretending it some sort of skeptical epiphany, it makes you look ridiculous.

          • Avatar of Will
            September 3, 2013 at 10:38 am

            Why the hell are you still here? We get it. You hate Rebecca. Move the fuck on.

      • Avatar of marilove
        September 3, 2013 at 1:53 pm —

        …..

        What does FtB have to do with this?

        Christ. You people really love bringing up things that don’t belong just so you can further your agenda. It’s really, really sad. And lazy as hell.

        • Avatar of delphi_ote
          September 4, 2013 at 5:09 pm —

          What DOESN’T FtB have to do with this?

          We can’t get “David Cody”‘s real name, because it was actually PZ in disguise. This entire thing was organized in the FtB back channels as a way to get sympathy for Rebecca and the Skepchicks. They’re planning with their feminazi allies to steal ALL of the ice cream.

          (Deja vu. The last time I made a post like this, I was making fun of a 9/11 Truther)

  25. Avatar of Penny.Jenny
    September 3, 2013 at 7:15 am —

    My take.. both parties were wrong.

    The DragonCon reps seem to have realised that the SkepChick table was going against the spirit of the rules, but didn’t have an exact rule that the table was breaking in order to shut it down. Instead of admitting that and deciding to work out a compromise they started inventing rules on the fly. This is not on. You need to recognise at that stage that your rules are badly written. You certainly shouldn’t start getting annoyed and aggressive because someone is arguing the rules when your own rules are badly written.

    Saying that Rebecca and Amy were clearly going against the spirit of the rules for this area, and I don’t think they had any right to start getting in the show-me-the-exact-rule-I’m-breaking nonsense. Rebecca even states she was planning on covering some of her travelling costs with this money. That is not what these tables are for. They are not to make money for anything, travelling costs or not (if Rebecca’s travelling costs had already been covered she would have just have had this large amount of money from the table). If you want to sell stuff in order to make money, for what ever reason, you need to get a proper commercial table. You would hope that anyone coming to something like DragonCon comes in good faith and is willing to work with the organisers within the spirit of the convention, even if the organisers messed up with the exact phrasing of a rule. Not doing that is very bad form.

    DragonCon should have said we messed up with the exact wording of this rule but your table violates the spirit of this rule, please work with us in good faith and close it down. And Rebecca and Amy should have realised that they were violating the spirit of this law, realised that their table is not what this space is about, frankly not put it up there in the first place, but when they did have it up not start arguing the letter of the law and trying to get out of the issue on technical interpretations of the rule.

    • Avatar of moonglaive
      September 3, 2013 at 2:00 pm —

      “That is not what these tables are for. They are not to make money for anything, travelling costs or not (if Rebecca’s travelling costs had already been covered she would have just have had this large amount of money from the table).”

      Except if you’re travelling to a convention in order to promote Skepchick, in which case, using money made at a convention table for the purposes of promoting Skepchick would be an acceptable use of… money made at a convention intended for the promotion of Skepchick. A free table provides good exposure to the group and content to the convention/attendees, but what does that have to do with how that group pays to attend for that exposure? That’s not against the spirit of the rules at all. It’s really damn common for organizations to pay for their volunteers or employees to attend promotional functions.

      It sounds like Dragon*Con was looking for a reason to boot Skepchick for reasons unrelated to what Skepchick was selling, and so they used a loophole in their own rules to do so. Even if Rebecca or Amy or anyone in charge at the Skepchick table was reacting poorly to the interactions — which would be understandable, given the actual wording of the rule in question — how does that at all excuse the convention’s response to these supposed complaints?

      Vendors (and panelists) are treated like absolute crap by a lot of conventions “they’re such assholes, acting like entitled divas!” — at least the ones around here. Usually, the problem comes from a failure on the part of the convention to actually communicate to the rest of staff (up and down the chain of command) and participants *any* clarification or changes made before a convention even starts, much less during the event itself. There is also breakdown in communication between staff heads and the people who manage tables for specialty tracks, and those managers of specialty track frequently make exceptions without making sure it’s okay or even passing those along the relevant information to whoever needs it. And yet, the people who head up the vendors’ hall act like vendors and other participants there are completely in the wrong for getting upset at how they’re treated when convention staff shunt all responsibility onto them.

      @Christopher Becker: this isn’t a court of law, and we’re certainly not talking moral or safety laws. Vendors are “responsible for knowing and abiding by the rules” does not hold legal weight except where contractual obligation applies; conventions are responsible for conveying and enforcing their own rules, though they still cannot violate discrimination laws in the process. Conventions can make exceptions to their own rules if they choose to do so (at their own expense), and apparently, they have either done so for Skepchick in the past or simply changed their own rule this year in order to selectively apply it to Skepchick. It is the convention’s responsibility to rectify their mistakes, not the participant’s responsibility to know when an unclear rule (hah!) has been violated or an exception has been suspended without warning.

      • Avatar of Penny.Jenny
        September 3, 2013 at 2:12 pm —

        @moonglaive Making money at the convention is not my issue. Rebecca or Amy can use the money they make any way they want, that is no ones business. The point is that making money is not the purpose of the fan tables, and goes against the spirit of the fan tables. The fan tables are not for making money, to cover travel expenses or any other running costs of an organisation. The fan tables are there to give a group a chance to promote themselves to those attending the conference, and are given by DragonCon to organisations for free in order to do that. If you are there to sell to make money you should have a vendor table. What you do with that money is none of DragonCon’s business.

        • Avatar of mrmisconception
          September 3, 2013 at 2:21 pm —

          Except, according their own rules you can sell logos merchandise or those made by or for the group as long as the profits go to a non-profit. (which they did)
          What you seem to be implying (correct me if I’m wrong) is that organizations that have free fan tables can only give away things, which is contrary to what the rules actually say.
          The rules are poorly written and I see no reason that the interpretation that Rebecca and Amy had of the rules could not be correct, especially when they were allowed in previous years. The rules could be interpreted either way and appear to have been by Dragon*Con itself.

          • Avatar of Penny.Jenny
            September 3, 2013 at 2:36 pm

            “Except, according their own rules you can sell logos merchandise or those made by or for the group as long as the profits go to a non-profit. (which they did)”

            Which is because their own rules are badly written. Which is why I was saying that Rebecca and Amy (and anyone else attending a conference like this) should consider the spirit of the rules, not just the technical language. They certainly shouldn’t try and circumvent the spirit of the rules simply because they are poorly written. Unless people want to be reading a T&C as long as one from Apple any conference is going to rules that leave open loopholes. People should go along to a conference like DragonCon in good faith, particularly when it comes to facilities like the fan tables which are designed for the promotion of clubs and societies, with a division between that promotion and commercial activities. The fan table section clearly is not for money making, and any organisation in the fan table section should be mindful of that.

            “What you seem to be implying (correct me if I’m wrong) is that organizations that have free fan tables can only give away things, which is contrary to what the rules actually say.”

            What I’m saying is that organisations that have free fan tables should be there to promote their organisation, not make money to cover the cost of being there or for anything else. The rules allow for the selling of mechanising to promote the organisation and again the spirit is to do this as part of promoting the organisation, not to make money for the organisation from the selling of mechanise.

            “The rules are poorly written and I see no reason that the interpretation that Rebecca and Amy had of the rules could not be correct, especially when they were allowed in previous years. The rules could be interpreted either way and appear to have been by Dragon*Con itself.”

            I agree with you entirely that the rules are poorly written, but the spirit of the rules is clearly not to allow tables in the fan section set up for money making. That is why they have a vendor section. If you want to make money from DragonCon you should get a vendor table.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 3, 2013 at 2:45 pm

            So the rules aren’t clear and are hard to understand, but you expect people to spychically pick up the “spirit of the rules” from a really poorly written set of rules?

            That’s ASKING for trouble, because people may interpret the “spirit” of the rules differently.

            Rules should be clearly written. The “spirit’ of the rules would be irrelevant if the RULES HAD BEEN CLEARLY WRITTEN FROM THE GET GO.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 3, 2013 at 2:45 pm

            psychically … i can type. lol

          • Avatar of mrmisconception
            September 3, 2013 at 3:05 pm

            @Penny.Jenny
            If they were there simply there to make money I would agree, but they were there representing Skepchick (i.e. promoting a non-profit). These organizations are allowed to sell promotional materials, yet the definition of promotional material is so poorly defined that anything without a great big Skepchick stamp could be interpreted as violating the rules, even though non-branded merch is allowed per the same ill-defined rules. What the orgs do with that money should not be Dragon*Con’s business (it would be the business of the IRS if it violates non-profit rules, but not the con) and even if it were, paying for your representatives to be live at the con in no way violates the “spirit” of the rules as far as I can see.

            The truth is the con got a complaint and sent a rep over to talk to Skepchick about it, at which point it seemed to be addressed. Later the con said they had another complaint and started rules-lawyering one table while ignoring other tables that had similar items (according to others accounts).
            They broke the rules and the con was within its rights to ask them to shut it down, it’s just that the way they went about it was not conducive to further participation from Skepchick.
            But then maybe that was the idea, who knows.

        • Avatar of skmc
          September 3, 2013 at 2:22 pm —

          If the fan tables were there solely for promotion and making money were against the spirit of their purpose, then all of the merch on those tables would have to be given away. Free promotional material, nothing for sale. But sales are allowed by the rules, so your interpretation makes no sense to me.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 3, 2013 at 2:46 pm

            But but but! The spiriti of the rules! You must interpert the spirit of the rules when the rules are already poorly written.

            They keep repeating “spirit” as if it actually means something in this context. It really just means “I interpreted it this way, why didn’t you?!”

          • Avatar of Penny.Jenny
            September 3, 2013 at 2:52 pm

            “If the fan tables were there solely for promotion and making money were against the spirit of their purpose, then all of the merch on those tables would have to be given away.”

            Why? It is perfectly possible to sell merch at a fan table without being there to making money. For example, my gaming clan often sells badges at cost at events like this (never been to DragonCon, but the concept of fan tables is universal). We want people wearing our badges, we weren’t trying to make money for our hotels or our plane tickets, so why make money from the merch.

            To clarify I don’t have any issue at all if Rebecca wants to be making money to cover her travel expenses, or make money for Skepchick. But that is what the vendor tables are for, making money.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 3, 2013 at 3:16 pm

            She said she wanted to recoup SOME of her costs, NOT ALL. And if you’re selling things, you are making money. You can’t sell things and not make money.

        • Avatar of marilove
          September 3, 2013 at 2:43 pm —

          If making money wasn’t the spirit, then items wouldn’t be allowed to be sold……………..

          • Avatar of punchdrunk
            September 3, 2013 at 3:07 pm

            It would all be free swag. I’m not seeing anything about selling at cost. Either you can sell your group’s merch or you can’t.

          • Avatar of punchdrunk
            September 3, 2013 at 3:08 pm

            - sell your group’s merch *at at fan table*

        • Avatar of moonglaive
          September 3, 2013 at 3:02 pm —

          “The point is that making money is not the purpose of the fan tables, and goes against the spirit of the fan tables.”

          Says who? And why? What “spirit” of attending a convention also stipulates that no funds can be raised by an organization through providing related goods for that organization? How is that at all against “the spirit of the rules”? The “spirit of the rules” has to do with keeping specialty track tables from competing with vendors. That does not mean that specialty track tables can’t sell anything, but that they cannot sell the same items that would be sold by vendors, like general merchandise. Hand-made goods are not general merchandise, and this is why some conventions also provide cheaper space explicitly for artists or fan groups to promote and sell their work as well.

          • Avatar of Penny.Jenny
            September 3, 2013 at 3:22 pm

            @moonglaive This is the way most conferences are run. The fan tables are provided for free and without DragonCon expecting any payment for being there. In return the conference expects that organisations do not abuse this offer by setting up to make money out of being there. Contrast this with the vendors, who have to pay for the space they use, precisely because they are there to make money. No one said you cannot sell anything at these fan tables, I already gave example of where I sold at a fan table. The point is not to be there to be making money, but to be promoting your organisation or club.

            @punchdrunk I agree the rules are badly written. But I also think it would be very difficult to write a T&C to cover every circumstance without getting into the territory of an Apple document. What would be great is if organisations could go to events like this without the need for pages long iron glad T&C and just follow the spirit of why things like fan tables exist.

          • Avatar of punchdrunk
            September 3, 2013 at 3:27 pm

            I think they were following the spirit of the agreement. You can sell your group’s merch to promote and benefit your non-profit enterprise. No commercial, for profit, or mass produced items. That’s the spirit I’m seeing. The spirit of DIY geeky nonprofits.

    • Avatar of Melanie
      September 3, 2013 at 4:19 pm —

      When an organization sends a representative to a conference for the purpose of promoting the organization, all travel costs are promotional costs. The person staffing the table is necessary to promoting the organization. This idea that they knowingly violated the spirit of the rules is clearly not true from the OP. If they knowingly did this, Rebecca would not have even mentioned that she hopes to recoup some of her travel costs. So I don’t know if your accusation is malicious or obtuse, but I do know it is flat-out untrue.

      And your implication that this spirit is somehow an obvious given is also clearly not true considering how many fan tables were also apparently breaking this rule and have been for years. That you think this spirit should be obvious is understandable. But that doesn’t make it so.

  26. Avatar of Amy Roth
    September 3, 2013 at 3:29 pm —

    I purchase vendor booths and tables for my art all the time. I also get free tables at conventions very often due to my participation. I am happy to do whatever is required of me depending on the situation. I am not out to break any rules. IN THIS CASE, I had participated and had my art available for sale on the Skepchick Fan table at Dragon Con for 4 years in a row. I also participated in the Skeptrack during that time both on stage and off. I helped with vaccine clinics and other promotional events tied to the Skeptic Track and the con. There was no reason for me to assume this year would be any different. I was there to promote the Skepchick Blog Network and to encourage critical thinking and to help promote Cosmo Quest. BUT, however you want to slice it up, this year we were treated very, very rudely, unnecessarily. If I had thought I had to be in the vendor room ALL OF A SUDDEN after four years of participating in the EXACT same way, I would have certainly considered doing that, or simply not attended or attended and not lugged all my art with me. At least I would have been given an opportunity to make a decision .

    I find it so disheartening that so many self-proclaimed “skeptics” are happy to ignore or invent their own facts just so they can hate us and assume that we have the worst intentions, regardless of the situation, no matter what we do. You people are awful (you know who you are) and your unbridled hate and cynicism, if left unchecked will ruin what is left of the skeptic community. Skeptics should want to HELP other people and help make the world a kinder, more just place otherwise the movement is nothing more then self-congratulatory I-figured-out psychics-aren’t-real BS. And if THAT is what it is going to be about, then I can certainly find better things to do with my time and other things to promote with my art.

    • Avatar of Christopher Becker
      September 4, 2013 at 5:54 pm —

      “I find it so disheartening that so many self-proclaimed “skeptics” are happy to ignore or invent their own facts just so they can hate us and assume that we have the worst intentions, regardless of the situation, no matter what we do.”

      The facts:

      - The people at the Skepchick table did not know the rules.
      - The people at the Skepchick table broke the rules.
      - In writing about it, Watson left out several relevant details.
      - Watson named the wrong person.

      The skeptic community is not here to act as your shoulder to cry on, Amy. The only thing skeptics have any obligation to do is BE SKEPTICAL. Even the laziest critical eye aimed at this story can see the holes in it, and can see the obvious attempt of Watson to play the part of the victim while quietly sweeping any details that point to her responsibility in this debacle under the rug.

      Skepticism is not about blindly following the leaders because they’re yelling super loud right now and they really really need some support. Skepticism is about questioning everyone, and everything. You and Watson are not exempt from this.

      • Avatar of Will
        September 4, 2013 at 6:24 pm —

        Why are you still fucking arguing about this?

        You’ve so conveniently ignored other people in this thread who have said that the rules were applied arbitrarily as other tables were selling stuff that was “agains the rules.” Further, no one–not even Rebecca–has denied that they were selling things that were not allowed by the rules. THAT. IS. NOT. THE. ISSUE. The issue is the way that Rebecca and Amy were treated by a staff member and the arbitrary application of the rules to Skepchick’s table and not to others.

        So cut the “I’M A SKEPTIC I CHALLENGE EVERYTHING” bullshit, because the only thing you’re challenging is people’s patience.

        • Avatar of Melanie
          September 4, 2013 at 7:22 pm —

          He’s still arguing because he clearly believes that when women (or just Skepchicks) are mistreated, that they must have it drilled into them that they were asking for it, that unless they were perfect, they deserve any abuse they get. And if they are not perfect and have the gall to point out the mistreatment publicly, that they are then asking for more mistreatment, from people like him, who want to belittle them and make sure they understand that their imperfection is far more important than the targeting and verbal abuse they received.

          Really, guys, all he’s asking for is that Rebecca and Amy acknowledge that they deserve verbal abuse and then STFU. Is that too much to ask?

  27. Avatar of Penny.Jenny
    September 3, 2013 at 3:32 pm —

    @marilove I didn’t say she was trying to recoup her entire costs. She says in the blog post that she expected to make a loss, but hoped that the merch could help off set the loss. Her entire costs were reported to be $1,000, if she is making any dent in that bill from the merch we are talking about a not insignificant amount of money. The fan tables were not set up and given to organisations so they can make hundreds of dollars from being at DragonCon. Some of the vendors would probably think that making that much money was a good day, and would wonder why they are paying DragonCon for the privilege of being there if the fan tables can make that much money.

    • Avatar of Rebecca Watson
      September 3, 2013 at 3:57 pm —

      Making a few hundred dollars over the course of 4 days for a table that cost them $1000 just to rent (let alone their travel and hotel) would not in fact be considered a great (four) days for a dealer room merchant, especially if in addition to staffing their table all day they also had to spend three to five hours performing on stage while at the event.

      Nice try, though.

      • Avatar of Penny.Jenny
        September 3, 2013 at 4:23 pm —

        Yes that was the point. Vendors pay a lot for the privilege of selling at DragonCon. They pay for the space, even down the electricity as far as I can tell. If after all that they walked away with a few hundred dollars I think some of the smaller vendors would think “success”. On the other hand the fan tables don’t have any of those costs, if you make 300 bucks selling merch you keep all that yourself, no money has to be paid to DragonCon for access to the space to sell merch. For the privilege of having space to promote to attendees for free you are expected not to be using that space to make money. If you want to make money from being at a conference you should be in the vendor area and going through all the same costs everyone else who is there to make money goes through.

        • Avatar of vexorian
          September 3, 2013 at 4:41 pm —

          A lot of this rhetoric in support of DragonCon seems to be based on the idea that Rebecca and Amy are complaining about not being allowed to sell their stuff. It seems to me that when a rep asked them to remove an item they did so willfully. It seems to me that the issue here is DragonCon acting inconsistently, making up a third warning and treating them like garbage. I don’t see how the whole discussion about paid vendors needing every dollar justifies any of that. It would only justify having rules about what you can sell in the fan tables*, but it doesn’t justify having organization issues that make the enforcement of those rules inconsistent to the point it causes confusion nor it would justify treating people terribly about it unless the people were actively making an effort to break those rules.

          *I would speculate that DragonCon has the fan tables for a good reason. They want to use them as a benefit and motivation to make people have less trouble participating in the convention. And in the case of Skepchick, it worked fine for 4 years.

          • Avatar of Penny.Jenny
            September 3, 2013 at 4:58 pm

            To clarify I’m not supporting DragonCon. Reading Rebecca’s blog post I didn’t think much of their mishandling of this situation and reading Melaine’s post I think even less. A staff member verbally assaulting Rebecca and Amy is absolutely disgraceful behaviour that DragonCon board need to deal with very promptly and harshly. That staff member should be kicked out of the organisation and barred from attending future conferences.

        • Avatar of freemage
          September 6, 2013 at 10:18 am —

          PennyJenny, this was a significant logic fail.

          Vendors walk in with hotel, travel and table fees as their costs. They want to recoup all of that, PLUS make a profit–that’s why they are there. So they need far, far more than ‘a few hundred’ over the cost of the table alone to consider themselves to have had a good business reason to be there.

          Amy and Rebecca were using the fan-table sales to offset the cost of their hotel and travel, as representatives of Skepchick. The funds were thus being used directly to support their organization–which is the ‘spirit of the rules’. They were not expecting to make a profit above those costs, merely to, in essence, give their organization an effective discount (or, more accurately, a rebate of variable value).

          • Avatar of Penny.Jenny
            September 6, 2013 at 4:21 pm

            Sigh. I’ve already dealt with all these points. The spirit of the rules is not to make money to support your organisation. The spirit of the rules is to allow you to promote your organisation to attendees. That is why you get the table for free. All the vendors are trying to cover their costs as well, but DragonCon don’t say we will just take some of your profits.

            Anyway, as posts below say all this discussion over the rules is a bit academic given that the real issue is that Rebecca and Amy were verbally attacked by a DragonCon volunteer. What I’m interested in now is what is happening to this volunteer, what action DragonCon are taking.

          • Avatar of delphi_ote
            September 6, 2013 at 6:30 pm

            “The spirit of the rules is not to make money to support your organisation.”

            http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proof_by_assertion

            If you’re not going to give anyone access to the secret methods by which you’ve determined what the spirit of the rules are, you’re not going to convince anyone of anything.

          • Avatar of marilove
            September 6, 2013 at 10:32 pm

            Can you please stop with this “spirit of the rules” bullshit? Rules by their very nature should be objective, not vague and easy to manipulate the meaning of. HOLY CRAP.

            Can you at least define “spirit of the rules” for us — and perhaps start by defining “spirit”. What do you MEAN by that?

            Stop with this vague bullshit. Rules should be clearly written, and consistently applied.

            Are you sure you’re a skeptic? Because using the word SPIRIT over and over and over and over again is a decidedly UN-skeptical thing to do.

            You just keep repeating that phrase over and over and over again as if it has some sort of specific meaning, when it does not.

    • Avatar of GeekGirlsRule
      September 3, 2013 at 4:15 pm —

      You’re also not addressing the fact that they’ve been doing this for FOUR YEARS, and it’s been fine up until now.

      IF the rules had changed, shouldn’t DragonCon have let people know? The smaller conventions I’m part of in the PNW do. If there is a change to vendor/fan table policy, then they mention it in the newsletter, as well as the vendor/fan table reps telling people in person, via email when they get their applications, face to face… Seriously, by the time the con rolls around you’re sick to death of hearing about how the vendor policy changed, or something else.

      So what we have here is Rebecca and Amy behaving in a manner with a four year precedent, with no notice that the situation may have changed, and no indication from anyone at DragonCon that this is a NEW rule. And suddenly, they’re in violation, while behaving the exact same way they’ve behaved for the PAST FOUR YEARS. And that doesn’t merit even an acknowledgement from you?

      • Avatar of Penny.Jenny
        September 3, 2013 at 4:32 pm —

        “And that doesn’t merit even an acknowledgement from you?”

        I acknowledged that in my original post. Like I said in that post DragonCon’s handling of the situation has been particularly poor, and they had no technical grounds for shutting down Rebecca and Amy’s table. I assume they didn’t have any technical grounds for the last 4 years either and no one noticed the issue until someone (probably a vendor) complained to the staff.

  28. Avatar of Melanie
    September 3, 2013 at 4:27 pm —

    Much of this comment thread has been a massive derail from the actual point of this post, and I have participated in that derailing, so I’m done with talking about the completely irrelevant to the point discussion of the rules and whether they broke them and if so how much and when they’ll post bail.

    The point is this: They were targeted and verbally abused. That is a serious issue. That is THE issue here. They aren’t playing the victim. They were targeted. There isn’t a line to cross in regard to the rules that puts them at fault for being targeted and verbally abused. That is solely the fault of the people targeting and verbally abusing them. Period. They don’t deserve to be targeted and abused for breaking rules.

    If the rules were really the issue here, they would have had a problem with the first guy who spoke to them about it. They didn’t. Just the opposite.

    They have a problem with being targeted and verbally abused. So do I. If you don’t, please go work out your sorry ethical priorities elsewhere. Trying to find some way to put part or all of the blame on them for being verbally abused is fucked up. Stop it.

    • Avatar of punchdrunk
      September 3, 2013 at 4:31 pm —

      Yup.

      • Avatar of flewellyn
        September 3, 2013 at 8:19 pm —

        Well, if anything bad happens to Rebecca or another Skepchick, ever, no matter what, it is incumbent upon the dudebros and chill girls of the internet to find SOME way in which it is their fault. Especially Rebecca, of course.

        At least, that seems to be the prevailing opinion among the sort of people who think “make me a sandwich” is the height of comedy…

    • Avatar of delphi_ote
      September 4, 2013 at 5:17 pm —

      Damn straight! And they were not just verbally abused by some random stranger. They were verbally abused by the staff at an event they’ve helped promote for years! Staff that should’ve thought of them as being on the same side. This ENTIRE interaction could’ve ended positively with a response as simple as, “I’m really sorry. Officially, everything has to have a logo. I know the rules are confusing written, but that really is the policy. I know you feel singled out, but we have to enforce the rules whenever there’s a report.”

  29. Avatar of Eneasz Brodski
    September 4, 2013 at 11:44 am —

    If I may…
    http://wiscon.info/about.php
    “WisCon is the first and foremost feminist science fiction convention in the world. WisCon encourages discussion, debate and extrapolation of ideas relating to feminism, gender, race and class. WisCon honors writers, editors and artists whose work explores these themes and whose voices have opened new dimensions and territory in these issues. And, oh yes, we also like to have fun while we’re at it.”

  30. Avatar of Penny.Jenny
    September 7, 2013 at 4:10 pm —

    @marilove This is hardly the time or place to educate you as to what the common term “spirit of the rules/law” means (hint, nothing to do with spirituality). If by chance you are genuinely interested start here. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Letter_and_spirit_of_the_law

    And I’m not interested in continuing to debate what I said. If you think this was following the spirit of the rules fine, I have already explained why I don’t and frankly I don’t care to keep repeating the same points, particularly given the far more serious issue of the verbal abuse. So if you want to just shout at someone pick someone else please.

  31. Avatar of werehatrack
    April 29, 2014 at 12:53 pm —

    Coming to this very late, and not having read every comment, I’ll just toss in some DragonCon observations from a slightly different point of view.

    Years ago, it became clear to the dealers and exhibitors that unless you were paying the con lots of money (as in, a lot more than just nominal booth or table fees), your opinions and needs were pretty much irrelevant. Spaces in the old dealer room downstairs at the Marriott Marquis had always suffered from a lack of adequate aisle space to permit the fans to safely browse (and be able to safely exit the room in an emergency, according to the standards posted online by the fire marshalls), and dealers who had the misfortune to be positioned in the far back reaches of the room were inevitably doomed to a nonprofit weekend. Upstairs, in the exhibit hall, things were more professional for a long time – until someone in a high place decided that they needed to add more booths, at which point some pinch points developed that caused illegally dense crowding which the con staff refused to recognize or make accommodations for without threatening to throw out the dealer who was complaining.

    By 2007, the response to ANY complaint devolved to “If you don’t like it, leave. We don’t need you, and we can fill your space instantly because there are 400 people on the waiting list.” But things didn’t get truly abysmal until 2013, when the dealer and exhibitor spaces were moved to a different building, across Peachtree Street, in a location that could only be reached from street level and required a walk of a minimum of two blocks from any of the Marquis function spaces. In that new space, it became clear that their attitude toward the dealers and exhibitors was essentially one of utter contempt. The layout of the space was rife with pinch points in the traffic flow, had woefully inadequate exits, and lacked a great deal of needed signage to inform the attendees of where things were (and dealer-made signage was immediately torn down if outside the dealer’s own space). To make matters worse, the facility had no cellular access capability, which meant that the vendors couldn’t run debit cards in debit mode at all, and couldn’t run credit card transactions in realtime – a bonanza for anyone intent on credit card fraud. But the problems didn’t even *start* there. The access to that facility for bringing in the dealers’ and exhibitors’ equipment and merchandise was so limited that some were not able to get theirs in via the loading dock at all, and ended up parking in a nearby garage and hauling in their material on hand carts from as much as a block and a half away. Loading out was even worse; some were not able to get access to the loading-out area due to the congestion spawned by the lack of capacity, and ended up having to pay Freeman to carry their stuff out of the building when they were unable to effect their exit before Noon of the day following the end of the con – despite having been packed up and ready to load since as early as 7PM of the day before.

    Did DragonCon make any statements giving any indication that they would be addressing this problem? Not to my knowledge, however they *did* announce that they would *increasing* the number of vendor booths for 2014 by expanding up to the *third* floor of that facility. I cannot see how they expect *even more* dealers and exhibitors to get in and out of that location when they were already past the maximum that could be accommodated via the existing portals, and I have no confidence whatsoever that they care about or intend to address that situation or any of the other issues that have been dogging the vendors. From what I have heard from those who were selling at DragonCon in 2013, the typical sales drop (attributed to a variety of reasons which all amount to “the customers weren’t coming by in the kind of numbers you expect for DragonCon”) was between 40 and 60% from the year before. If they’re expanding the number of vendors for 2014, then the same number of customer dollars will get spread even more thinly.

    DragonCon’s price for booth space was high by comparison to the value available to the typical dealer all along. When you take a sharp drop in customer access into account, it’s really hard to justify the expense at all. Some of the dealers will doubtless tough it out and hope that the meager or absent profits of the four years that DC has contracted for this location will be repaid when they – hopefully! – move to a “better” location afterwards. But will they? If DragonCon actually valued the presence of their dealers and exhibitors, they wouldn’t be shafting them so brazenly now; I see no reason to think that their attitude in the future will be any more appreciative. And, perhaps more importantly, i don’t see any reason why anyone should be surprised when the same kind of attitude is in evidence in other parts of the organization. They’re become insensitive to all criticism, and appear focused entirely on one thing: This year’s bottom line. They seem to think that anything that does not make money for them is irrelevant, and all assets are replaceable. It’s classic Big Business methodology in action; even the customers seem to be regarded as an inexhaustible pool of maximally-fleeceable and disposable warm bodies.

    Frankly, I, for one, will not be a vendor there in the future unless things change drastically. (I haven’t been one under my own name in more than a decade, but I’ve been working for one off and on, but that one has scaled their presence back to avoid taking an unacceptable loss, so I’ll be doing other events instead.)

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